Friday, October 05, 2007, Friday, October 05, 2007
Love is unconditional and freely given.
In the past few days ever since I last blogged, many things happened and through this, I had learnt many lessons.
I have learnt that I cannot take anything or anyone in my life for granted. People come into my life for a reason and it is my job to find out what is that purpose for? So that I am able to accord to the respective individual the appropriate level of attention, love and care. People don't just appear in your life without a reason.
I have learnt that no amount of future planning would ever be sufficient if you do not have a strong present. The eye for detail for everyday happenings or events in your life is even more important than ONE big project that you are currently planning for in the next few years. No present = No future.
I have learnt to listen and keep listening. Sometimes, all people want is a listening ear so that they are able to share their burdens with you whenever they share and probably, they already have a solution in their minds. Being able to provide a solution is important, however it fades significantly in the light of listening aptly to the person first.
I have learnt that love is truly unconditional with no strings attached. Love is freely giving yourself to your loved one; be it my girlfriend or my family. Of course, when you freely give, there will be a risk of being hurt. However, it is the overwhelming love that will heal all hurts that are encountered along the way right?. Love doesn't boast, doesn't parade itself, doesn't seek to have but always seeking to bless and to give. Loving a person means being with the person through thick and thin, through fire and high waters, to hold her hand and look her into the eyes and say "Everything is going to be alright".
I have learnt that love is best expressed in the most inconvenient situations. When you choose to continue to love a person even in the midst of a very inconvenient situation or in the midst of frustration and anger, the person recieving your love will be even more blessed as compared to when you love out of comfort.
Dear, I know that I am still a work in progress in many aspects of my life and I thank you for choosing to accept and love me more and more every single day!. You are truly a gem that God has placed in my life and I want to honour, love, care and protect you for the rest of my life!.
Thank you God for sending dear into my life..I LOVE YOU GOD!..
Dearie darling, I love you too! muacks! You are the best! :)