Thursday, May 24, 2007, Thursday, May 24, 2007
Partner Criterion
My partner would be someone that is:
1) Fun-Loving, Caring and Expressive
2) Loves God and serves Him using her talents.
3) Has a Focused and Driven personality.
4) Be Kind hearted and be sensitive enough to the needs of the people around her.
5) Beautiful
6) Love having kids
7) Loves to share her thoughts with me
8) Loves exercising
9) Sensual
10) Faithful
I won't expect to find someone that has all 10 attributes that I have listed out so far. Neither is this list the minimum requirements of what I am looking for. They are just preferred attributes that I would like my wife to have. It's often said that you have to be a person of that character before you can find one so this is an evaluation of myself at this present moment:
1) Fun-Loving, Caring and Expressive - Caring only. Not that Fun-Loving or Expressive
2) Loves God and serves Him using her talents. - Love and Serving God but can still be better with talent mgmt
3) Has a Focused and Driven personality. - Driven personality but not focused enough
4) Be Kind hearted and be sensitive enough to the needs of the people around her. - Overlooked needs at times.
5) Beautiful - Not the best looking guy around.
6) Love having kids - Like mixing around with kids if they behave themselves. haha!
7) Loves to share her thoughts with me - Like to share my inner thoughts with close friends.
8) Loves exercising - Jogging and Static Exercises are my main forms of activity.
9) Sensual - Like atmospheric places with appropriate chill out music
10) Faithful - Improved from the past.
On a different note, something awesome happened yesterday! I went to meet a client to conduct the routine training for a personal client at his home and he actually gave me a lift to and fro Republic Plaza (where he works) in his BMW 520!..haha!..hmm i like the driving feel of a 520 because it's so powerful!..the way he overtakes the traffic is simply undescridable.haha!..anyway back to the awesome thing that happened. As we were on our way back, he actually told me that I can just inform him if I want to leave my current job! Anytime!
Seriously speaking, I was stunned because he works for an investment bank that only handles top tier clients.
Thank God for His favour of men that is upon me! Amen!
And you know what I replied? I said "Thank you for the offer and I will let you know in due time."..haha!..sound so zuai right?..haha..but i was really stunned la..haha..
Just amazed at how doors can be opened everywhere recently. I mean what I did was just to faithfully tithe and give my offerings weekly and could see signs of abundance everywhere! Thank God!. I could remember that in the past, whenever I give my offerings during service, am always challenged to give the biggest note in my wallet. And each time I gave, just felt the pinch but nonetheless, mustered all my courage and just gave! Truly, as we put His kingdom first, He will put our lives first. As a priority.
Till now, I am still amazed. In fact, spoke to the client earlier and asked if I could send him my resume soon. And he said "Why not? Sure!". Awesome la..really awesome stuff.
Still waiting for my interview results with a local bank but will also apply for this position in the investment bank as well. :)
This season is getting more and more defined with each passing week and the direction is clearer and clearer. I think or guess that God is preparing me and settling my life first before He introduces my future partner into the picture. :)
All in all, I just want to say that I am truly humbled by the open doors that He has opened in my life.
Never thought I would work in a bank firstly. Let alone an investment bank. :)
And I believe by faith that I will have a beautiful, caring and spiritual wife in the near future!
God, I love you.